Sponsorship and Codependency
Falling into codependency is a real danger for both sponsors and sponsees in recovery. First, some definitions to clarify what is being discussed here:
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Info & Help
Sponsors are Important & Biblical
Do not overlook the value of Recovery Buddies and Accountability Partners!
Did you know that studies have proven that one horse pulling alone can pull 2,500 pounds. But that two horses pulling together can pull 12,500 pounds! That is not twice but 5 times the amount of weight that one horse alone can pull!
Now think about that in terms of your recovery. You may not be able to overcome temptation by yourself, but you will be more than strong enough if you call on your recovery buddy for a little extra help.
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What is the Theology of Recovery?
The primary distinctives that differentiate Christian Recovery from other approaches to life change lie in our approach to spirituality.
Here are some of the major theological tenants of the Christian approach to recovery.
- Recovery is truly Christian only if God is part of it.
This God is not just a nebulous “Higher Power”, but rather is the Creator of the Universe Who has revealed Himself in the Bible. Additionally, this God is a loving God, who showed His love by sending His Son, Jesus Christ, into this fallen world to save us. John 3:16 - The Word of God is the authoritative rule and guide for our recovery. We believe there is, indeed, some objective TRUTH in this world and that it is revealed in the Holy Scriptures. Hebrews 4:12
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Beliefs & Characteristics of Sex Addicts
Common Characteristics of Sexual Addiction
Use of sexual thoughts and behaviors as primary coping methods.
Use of sexual arousal as our drug of choice.
A pattern of compulsive, out-of-control sexual behaviors: behaviors that are either illegal, illicit or believed to be “bad”.
Experience harmful consequences to themselves and others due to their sexual behaviors.
Lack of emotional intimacy.
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Am I a Sex Addict?
Questions to ask Yourself:
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1. Were you sexually abused as a child or adolescent?
2. Have you regularly purchased sexually explicit magazines?
3. Did your parents have trouble with sexual behavior?
4. Are you often preoccupied with sexual thoughts?
5. Do you believe that your sexual behavior is not normal?
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Self-Injury FAQ
What is Self-Injury? Are behaviors that alter the body’s appearance such as tatooing, drug use, body piercing, ritual mutilation, etc. SI? How does SI develop? What is the course of SI? Who typically takes part in SI? What ways do people SI? Why would anybody intentionally hurt themselves? What is the connection between Self-Injury and
Financial and Giving Matters Resources
BOOKS Christian Books on Money, Debt & Financial Planning NEWSLETTERS Economic Edge is a free newsletter you can subscribe to subscribe to. It is put out by American Vision and written by renowned economist Dr. Gary North, Ph.D. MINISTRIES Ronald Blue & Company 800-841-0362 Christian Stewardship Association 847-375-4741 Crown Financial Ministries 800-722-1976 Eternal Perspective Ministries
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Codependency FAQ
What is Codependency?
There are probably as many definitions of codependency as there are people who consider themselves to be codependent. Basically, if you identify with the posts here, and with the info in the books found on the subject, you might consider yourself to be codependent.
In “Codependent No More,” Melody Beattie gives several definitions. She includes Earnie Larsen’s definition:
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“Those self-defeating, learned behaviors or character defects that result in a diminished capacity to initiate or to participate in loving relationships.”
Melody Beattie’s own definition is:
Clutterers FAQ
Q: What is clutter?
A: “Clutter is anything we don’t need, want, or use that takes our time, energy or space, and destroys our serenity.
It can be outgrown clothes, obsolete paper….We may be selective in some areas, but not in others. Objects may be strewn about or wedged into drawers; neatly stacked or stowed in storage.” The Twelve Steps of Clutterers Anonymous, CLA WSO Literature Committee, approved February 1996.
Q: Is cluttering a real problem?
A: Anything that can get you evicted, get your children taken away from you, keep you from inviting people into your home, get you charged more by retailers and the tax authorities because you can’t find the paperwork needed to pay them on time, is a real problem.