Be Known By…
…what you’re for (not by what you’re against).
Today’s guidance: Be known by what you’re for (not by what you’re against).
Nobody wants to be a victim. Sometimes we pretend we’re victims, or even choose victim status, to avoid accountability, but you’re probably not actively seeking ways to be a better victim.
You don’t ever get complete control. That’s God’s job, so get over the illusion that you can control events or people. You can’t.
But you can develop influence. It’s a lot more subtle and long-term, but you can impact people and circumstances. Or you can choose to be a victim. Victims surrender influence.
There are three ways to influence what happens around you.
Consume. Other folks want your attention and your money, and they’ll do just about anything to get it. When you buy and use products and services, you encourage others to produce more of them. When you give your attention, you encourage others to do more of whatever you’re paying attention to.
Criticize. Your disapproval encourages others to do less of something, or to do it differently.
Consumers and critics can exert a certain amount of influence, but there an important “if”—these activities change things if others listen to and care about your choices and opinions. If you’re in the target audience or the right demographic, your consumer decisions might influence what’s produced. If you yell loudly enough or stand on the right platform, your criticism might cause someone to re-think.
Or maybe not, because consume and criticize are passive and reactionary. Someone else makes a choice, and you react. And if the other person doesn’t care about your response, you have no influence. Here’s an extreme example.
I choose not to buy cocaine—nobody cares. I criticize those who produce and sell cocaine—no impact. As a consumer or critic I have absolutely no influence on cocaine production and distribution. Fortunately, there’s a third option.
Create. Creators stand for something.
Don’t criticize someone else’s idea. Develop a better one.
Don’t gripe about negative media coverage—while you continue to watch. Go out and do something that highlights and celebrates the abundant generosity and service in your community.
Don’t lament the lack of effective ministry in a particular area. Start your own, or get involved and improve what’s already happening.
Don’t tear down opponents. Create something so powerful, compelling, and attractive that your opponents will want to join.
Creating, building, standing for something—it’s hard work. It’s not a quick fix. It requires preparation, determination, and perseverance. And it requires ignoring the consumers and critics who will inevitably try to knock you off course.
Consumers and critics influence through motivation. They stand in the back and use money or power or fear in an attempt to coerce or force change and tell someone else what to do.
Creators lead. Creators show the way. They’re the risk-takers, the ones in front.
Be a creator. Be a builder.
Be known by what you’re for (not by what you’re against).
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Copyright 2008-2012 by Rich Dixon, All Rights Reserved. Used by permission.Rich is an author and speaker. He is the author of:
Relentless Grace: God’s Invitation To Give Hope Another Chance. Visit his web site www.relentlessgrace.com
Inevitably, you’re going to reach places where you feel stuck and don’t know which way to turn or what to do next. You’ll wonder about God’s purpose and whether there’s any point to it all.
Copyright 2009-2012 Kathi Macias, all rights reserved. Used by permission.
My friend Tim pastors a church in Denver, and he talks a lot about the “Y’all Come In” mentality. In that view, if the church opens the door and puts down a welcome mat, that’s enough.
