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Can a “Bad Tree” Bear Good Fruit?

Friday, May 3rd, 2013

I’m still messing with the “good measure” passage in Luke 6:38. Or perhaps more accurately, it’s messing with me. Check out the background here and here.

Jesus and I had to take a walk through the RUV—Rich’s Unstandardized Version—when I read past verse 38.

“No good tree bears bad fruit, nor does a bad tree bear good fruit. Each tree is recognized by its own fruit. People do not pick figs from thornbushes, or grapes from briers. A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.” (Luke 6:43-45)

Here’s the gist of our conversation.

“I read those first two sentences and just want to give up. Obviously, it’s hopeless.”

“Really?”

“Sure. We both know I’ll never achieve “good tree” status. I KNOW how often I mess up. I know about the impatience and selfishness, the all-too-frequent episodes of ingratitude. I create a pretty attractive façade, but it’s all pretty paint over rotten wood. And I know that YOU know.

“So if a bad tree can’t bear good fruit, what’s the point of even trying?”

Jesus scuffs at the ground with His sandals. He always seems to wear sandals, even when it’s cold. I should ask Him about that sometime.

“Yeah,” He mutters, “you do face a real dilemma, for sure. Humans messed things up, and you’re never going to fix it.”

“Uh…I was hoping for something a little more encouraging.”

“Hey, I’m just agreeing with you. You’re exactly right… the gap between you and God is too big. Nothing you humans do will ever be enough to cross it.

“But, Rich, you’re always so quick to give up because you forget the most important piece of the picture.”

“What’s that?”

Jesus smiles and puts an arm around my shoulders. “Me.”

He could see I wasn’t making the connection.

“Look, the Father knew you could never reach up across the gap you created. So He reached down. He sent me. The healing isn’t your job—it’s mine.

“And it’s done. You’re healed, forgiven, redeemed, reborn, renewed—so stop fussing about it and get on with being my hands and feet.”

“Okay, but what about the bad tree/good fruit deal?”

He looked at me with that familiar look that says are you ever going to get this?

“Who says you’re the tree?”

My dumbfounded stare probably didn’t surprise Him.

“I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. … If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you.” (John 15)

“So…You’re the good tree in the parable?”

The conversation sorta stopped there. I guess He figured that needed to sink in.

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Should I Laugh Or Cry?

Thursday, March 28th, 2013

One of my most profound childhood memories happened the night before my Grandpa’s funeral when I was twelve years old.

A large collection of family and friends gathered in Grandma’s small apartment. There were enormous quantities of food and an endless supply of adult beverages. Elmer was a colorful character who lived a big, full, over-the-top life. As the evening progressed, Grandpa’s twelve brothers took center stage and told story after hilarious story. I remember the walls shaking as laughter rattled the windows.

I also remember feeling confused. At one point I asked my mom why everyone seemed so happy. “Grandpa just died. Shouldn’t we be sad?”

“Of course everybody’s sad,” she said. “But what do you remember most about your Grandpa?”

I thought a minute. “His laugh.” He had this deep, full voice, and I think he loved to laugh more than anything.

“Don’t you think that’s how he’d want us to spend time remembering him? Can you imagine him wanting us to sit around quietly?”

I shook my head. I couldn’t ever remember him sitting around quietly. That’s not what he would have wanted.

I recalled that evening as I listened to a man explain something he’d learned traveling around the world.

“In many countries people can be fully present in their sadness and their joy at the same time. In America we seem to believe it’s an either/or deal. We can be sad or we can be happy, but not both.”

That’s exactly the dilemma I faced at Grandpa’s funeral. The stories reminded me of a special relationship with a special man and that made me smile with joy. But Elmer was gone, and that made me cry with sadness.

I thought I had to choose and I didn’t know the right answer. I think I carried around some guilt about that for a while.

I wonder if that false choice sometimes gets in the way of understanding Jesus. I don’t have an answer, but I suspect He embraced joy and sorrow, gain and loss, happiness and sadness as spectrums rather than distinct choices.

I just wanted to toss it out there. Have you ever gotten trapped, as I did at my Grandpa’s funeral, by the notion that apparently opposed feelings can’t coexist?

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Jesus Likes Me?

Tuesday, January 22nd, 2013

Don Miller wrote a penetrating reflection about how his faith has evolved in the past decade or so.

I paused a long time over one simple heading:

Jesus likes me

I believe Jesus loves me. It’s in the words of the simplest children’s song.

Jesus loves me
This I know
For the bible
Tells me so

Jesus loves everyone. That’s who He is.

But I have to admit…it’s hard not to smile when I allow myself to consider that Jesus actually likes me.

I think He likes you, too.

Birth

Wednesday, December 12th, 2012

From Twitter, that fountain of eternal wisdom, comes the inspiration for today’s word-of-the-week…

BIRTH


“Christmas means nothing without Easter. Jesus’ birth is meaningless without His death.”

I get the point, but I’d take issue with this tweet from a well-known Christian pastor. Frankly, I can’t think of a context in which Jesus’ birth is “meaningless.”

I get that the cross was a pivotal event, that Jesus’ death and resurrection were central events in history.

But I’m going to allow myself a few weeks to simply celebrate the occasion (John 1:14a) when “…the Word became flesh and made His dwelling among us.” I think it’s okay to focus on the joy and peace of Silent Night.

O Holy Night! The stars are brightly shining,
it is the night of the dear Savior’s birth.

The angels showed up that night and sang (Luke 2:13-14). That’s good enough for me.

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It’s Not Fair!

Monday, December 10th, 2012

No, it’s not.

If it was fair, millions of people wouldn’t lack access to clean water while I leave the faucet running.

If it was fair, kids in one part of the world wouldn’t walk miles for the chance at a basic education while students cut class at the modern, high-tech high school up the street.

If it was fair, the spare change in our couch cushions wouldn’t provide a year’s food for a hungry kid.

If it was fair, most of the world’s population wouldn’t yearn for a home as opulent as my garage.

If it was fair, a crippled guy in Africa wouldn’t have to crawl around on the ground because he can’t afford a $200 wheelchair.

If it was fair, a man who never did one thing wrong wouldn’t have suffered and died so I could spend eternity with God.

Wait…what? Those things weren’t what you meant by “fair”? Me, either.

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Relentless Grace: God’s Invitation To Give Hope Another Chance. Visit his web site www.relentlessgrace.com

Position Vs. Condition: Who Am I?

Friday, October 19th, 2012

Who are you?

I’m a writer. I’m a speaker. I’m a husband. I’m an old guy who rides a handcycle. I’m a quadriplegic, a guy in a wheelchair. I’m a guy who’s planning a new adventure: Florida Hope Tour 2013.

Of course, none of those has anything to do with who I am.

As a middle school teacher I laughed and cried as I watched kids engaged in the struggle to find their identity. For early adolescents, “who I am” is determined by friends, clothes, and activities. The answer changes as frequently and unpredictably as the hairstyles.

As much as adults try to help and guide, figuring out who they are is a difficult developmental task they need to accomplish. Unfortunately, many folks never quite find the answer. To some degree, many adults identify themselves (ourselves) by bank balance, neighborhood, career, and other external criteria.

When we define ourselves in these terms, we’re at the mercy of people and circumstances. We confuse condition with position.

Cars, jobs, houses, health—those are all conditions. They change, sometimes because of our actions and often because of events completely beyond our control. To the extent we answer “who am I” in external ways, we develop and affirm a conditional identity. We buy in to a lie.

Here’s the truth: Your identity has nothing to do with your condition. Who you are, who I am, doesn’t depend on circumstances. Our true core identity doesn’t change.

You and I are defined by our position as beloved children of God. That’s affirmed by perhaps the most familiar verse in scripture:

For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. John 3:16

If you’re not sure about your true identity, read this slight alteration, but fill the blanks with your name.

For God so loved __________ that he gave his one and only Son, that __________ shall not perish but have eternal life.

As a follower of Jesus, you are the person for whom God sacrificed His Son. Absolutely nothing can change that, because absolutely nothing can separate us from God’s love.

That’s who you are. You have a permanent position in God’s family.

It’s good to work on improving our conditions, as long as we don’t think success or struggle can alter our position.

That won’t change. Ever.

What conditions impact your perceptions of your position?

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Relentless Grace: God’s Invitation To Give Hope Another Chance. Visit his web site www.relentlessgrace.com

In Search Of The Next Thrill

Monday, September 17th, 2012

Have you ever battled an addiction?

We all know about addictions to drugs, alcohol, pornography, gambling, food…maybe you’ve struggled with similar demons. This weekend our pastor mentioned an addiction I’d never considered.

Do you think we can become addicted to excitement?

It’s an interesting notion.

I’m no expert on addiction, and I’m not sure Jeff was suggesting an actual physical or psychological addiction. But our culture surely seems to encourage a quest for immediate thrills.

Tonight I get to experience one of those “high” moments. I’m honored to speak to clients and families at a spinal cord injury support group. Such opportunities are true “mountaintop experiences” in my life.

But it isn’t, and can’t be, all about those moments. Most of my time is spent at a keyboard, sending words like these out into cyberspace, never quite knowing their impact. I’m preparing for presentations, creating slides, tweaking the web sites.

Or I’m cranking my bike, strengthening old shoulders for another edition of RICH’S RIDE after the New Year. I’m plotting a route around Florida, contacting possible speaking sites, engaging with supporters.

Much of that work is interesting, some is challenging, and some is just part of the deal. That’s the way it works. I suspect lots of folks give up on their dreams because of an unrealistic fantasy that life ought to be an unending series of thrills.

What do you think? Can we get trapped and derailed by a search for the permanent “high”?

Following Jesus wasn’t always exhilarating for his disciples. Certainly they witnessed the most exciting of events, but much of their time was spent in ordinary daily activity. They walked, cooked, ate, and talked together. Surely there were times of weariness, confusion, conflict, loneliness, and fear.

Being with Jesus may have been challenging and interesting, but I’ll bet it wasn’t one thrill after another. If His closest friends didn’t live out a three-year “retreat experience,” why should we expect something different?

I can see a danger in church becoming a place that creates the unrealistic expectation of an unending succession of mountaintop encounters with God. Once people believe that’s “normal” they’ll conclude God’s given up on them when the excitement fades a bit.

Hanging out with Jesus need never be boring or mundane. Seeking deeper connection with Him can always be interesting and challenging, but it won’t be endlessly exhilarating. Jesus doesn’t just want to be around for the retreat moments. He wants to be there, to be part of, our everyday ordinary daily lives.

Surely we ought to savor the high points in the journey. I’m excited about the opportunity to share my story tonight.

But life and work and following Jesus shouldn’t devolve into a desperate search for the next fix of excitement.

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Economic and Financial Abuse

Saturday, August 25th, 2012

Economic or financial abuse is one type of domestic violence. It shows up when the husband or partner refuses to allow his spouse to take part in financial decisions. He tells her or implies that women are inferior. He says they don’t have the intelligence or skills to handle finances.
He insists on keeping the checkbook and all financial records without letting her keep up to date with their financial status. Should he pass away first, she would have no idea how to pay bills, how to keep a checkbook, and how to handle the economic situation. She probably wouldn’t even know where he kept the checkbook and financial records.
He usually refuses to let her work outside of the home. If she does work, he belittles her job and her education and has her turn over her paycheck to him.
Without her knowledge, he will apply for credit cards and checking accounts, place her name on them, and make investments.
He may give her one check and fill in the information for her. If he gives her an allowance, he will most likely demand a full account with receipts of how she spent the money. However, he feels no obligation to give her an account of anything he does.

When it comes to his retirement fund, he will make full regular payments. If he talks to her about her retirement fund, he will suggest she put in a meager amount. He knows it won’t ever amount to much, and this will allow him to continue his power and control over her.

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Yvonne is a Speaker, Author, Counselor, Cancer Survivor and
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She is the author of Finding Hope for Your Journey through Breast Cancer.
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Seeing In The Dark

Monday, August 20th, 2012

As I write this, a friend waits for one of those conversations with a doctor. Maybe you’ve had one of those discussions for yourself or a loved one, the kind where the test results will determine a whole lot of next steps in your immediate future.

It’s all about what you don’t know. It’s all about waiting. It’s all about trust.

This morning I heard a psychologist discussing the recent theater shootings in suburban Denver and their effects on kids as they return to school. He said that one potential impact of such random violence might be on kids’ willingness to trust.

He talked about teaching “smart trust,” which makes sense. We all need to learn to be careful about whom we trust. But he went on to say there’s never a place for “blind trust.” I disagree.

I suspect he was talking about “indiscriminate” trust, certainly a path to disaster. But I’d argue that “blind trust” is the only kind of trust that really matters.

It’s easy to trust when the wallet’s fat, the pantry’s full, and everybody’s healthy. It’s easy to trust when the sun’s shining and you can see several miles down the path. That kind of trust isn’t really trust at all.

My friend reaches into a future of complete unknowns. She extends her hand blindly, not knowing what she’ll find when she pulls it back. She knows only that God holds her, and the events of her future, safely in the hollow of His hand.

She doesn’t know what that means or where it will lead. She trusts. Blindly. In the dark.

That’s the only place you can trust.

** I borrowed the notion that “trust happens in the dark” from my friend Dick Foth. Dick would probably say he borrowed it from someone else, and that it doesn’t matter anyway as long as God is glorified in the process.

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Who Am I?

Tuesday, August 7th, 2012

1 Samuel 18:18: “But David said to Saul, ‘Who am I, and what is my family or my father’s clan in Israel, that I should become the king’s son-in-law?’’

David felt awe and unworthiness in his status as son-in-law of the king.

David was the youngest of Jesse’s sons and had been a shepherd when the prophet Samuel anointed him as the next king.

Each of us can ask a similar question, “Who am I, and what is my family or my father’s side, that I should become a child of God?”

When God answers our prayers, we can ask, “Who am I, and what is my family or my father’s side, that God should answer my prayers?”

When we think of divine intercession, we can ask, “Who am I, and what is my family or my father’s side, that Jesus should intercede for me at the right hand of God and the Holy Spirit should intercede for me with groans that words cannot express?”

If we have a job, a home and a car, we can ask, “Who am I, and what is my family or my father’s side, that I should have a job, a home, and a car?”

When I sat across from Dr. James Dobson in Colorado Springs, I silently asked through tears, “Who am I, and what is my family or my father’s side, that I should sit with Dr. James Dobson for a radio interview?”

On my way out the building, Shirley Dobson walked in. She graciously let my publicist take a picture of me with her. Once again, I asked silently, “Who am I, and what is my family or my father’s side, that I should have my picture taken with Shirley Dobson?”

God gives each of us unbelievable blessings and delightful surprises because of his eternal unconditional love for us.

Dear God, help me be thankful that I am your child. Amen.

Application: When will you thank God this week for all his blessings to you?

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Yvonne is a Speaker, Author, Counselor, Cancer Survivor and
serves on the Board of Directors of Christians in Recovery.
She is the author of Finding Hope for Your Journey through Breast Cancer.
If you would like to have her speak for your organization or church, please contact her through
her website: http://YvonneOrtega.com