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Can Our Rights Be Wrong?

Thursday, April 10th, 2014

bill of rights“I have the right to ______.”

You fill in the blank—the possibilities are nearly endless. We’re all about defending and demanding our rights.

A few days ago I read an article about human trafficking in which the author cited compelling data linking prostitution, pornography, and the meteoric increase in internet trafficking of minors. In a comment, one guy angrily defended his constitutional right to view pornography, affirmed by THE SUPREME COURT! (his caps.) He went on to express his anger at “self-righteous Christians” trying to take away his right to do whatever he wanted in his private life.

Personally, I’ve no interest in limiting anyone’s rights. Passing a law might make us feel better, but it’s actually an extremely ineffective way to change “moral” behavior. Want examples?

  • Prostitution is illegal in every state. Does anyone believe those laws stop paid sexual activity or its horrible side effects
  • Slavery and human trafficking are illegal in every country. Nearly 30 million people live in modern-day slavery, and human trafficking is the second largest worldwide organized crime activity (behind drugs).
  • Illegal street drugs proliferate in every community despite massive law enforcement campaigns and billions of dollars wasted on a virtual revolving door of incarceration involving a huge portion of our population.

Jesus refused to deploy power or fear to control behavior. Paul frequently deferred his rights as a Roman citizen, accepting illegal beatings and imprisonment for the sake of the gospel. He wasn’t interested in his rights, but in God’s notion of what’s right.

But whatever were gains to me I now consider loss for the sake of Christ. What is more, I consider everything a loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them garbage, that I may gain Christand be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which is through faith in Christ—the righteousness that comes from God on the basis of faith. (Philippians 3:7-9)

Just wondering how different things would look if every follower of Jesus surrendered our “right” to judge those who disagree. What if we gave up our right to fight back, to shout for our political beliefs, to edit the truth to fit our version of reality?

What if knowing Jesus mattered more than getting our way? What if loving our enemies was really more important than winning? Would things look any different?

Do you think we could change the world if justice—setting things right, from God’s perspective—was more important to us than our rights?

Jesus gave His life for that principle.

In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus:

 Who, being in very nature God,
did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage;
 rather, he made himself nothing
by taking the very nature of a servant,
being made in human likeness.
And being found in appearance as a man,
he humbled himself
by becoming obedient to death—
even death on a cross! (Philippians 2:5-8)

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One Pesky Word Changes A Lot

Wednesday, April 9th, 2014

mt 6.33I used to think preachers were bragging a little when they talked about Greek or Hebrew translation. Frankly,I figured it was one way of quashing disagreement and showing who’s really the expert.

But as I learn, I’m amazed at how frequently a careful look at original words reveals a different understanding of an important point in scripture.

A couple of weeks ago I ran across a surprising (to me) assertion in a sermon. The preacher said, “Biblically, there’s no distinction between righteousness and justice.”

I thought that was a rather bold statement. His claim rested on a translation issue. Turns out there’s one Old Testament word—sadaq—and one New Testament Greek word—Dikaios­for righteousness and justice. So while we may consider them as two separate notions, the writers of scripture didn’t.

Justice is righteousness. Righteousness is justice.

Does that seem awkward to you? It did to me.

I think this changes a lot, but one thing it changes is: you can’t define these words differently. Whatever one means, the other means.

What’s your definition?

To me, justice means setting things right. Does that fit with righteousness?

Jesus said, “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” (Matthew 6:33)

So, seek first his kingdom and his justice…how does that change your understanding of this familiar verse—or does it?

This was an eye-opening notion for me. I’m still digesting.  More next time.

Your thoughts?

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“Follow me.” — “Okay, where are we going?”

Tuesday, April 1st, 2014

“Follow me.”

That’s the invitation. And it’s natural to ask, “Okay, where are we going?”

I think I’ve decided it’s the wrong question.

When Jesus called His disciples, He didn’t talk about where they’d go or what they’d do. He simply invited them to travel with Him.

I think it’s not about destination or activity or what we accomplish. I think it might be more about making sure we travel with Jesus and get to know Him.

I tend to get in trouble when I decide a particular result is “God’s plan.” Once I make that determination, I have to make it happen, no matter what, because it’s God’s plan. And obviously Jesus is going to help me–why wouldn’t He? It’s what God wants.

You see the problem, right? Suddenly it’s not clear who’s following whom. Maybe I’m expecting Jesus to serve me, support my agenda, and carry my stuff because I’m doing God’s work!

Perhaps a better way is deciding to travel with Jesus and listen a lot, no matter what. I’ll do what I’m good at and use my gifts to serve others, but I’ll trust Him for the results.

It comes down to one of my favorite questions: Do I really believe what I believe?

Do I really trust God? Is knowing Jesus really my highest priority? Am I truly willing to surrender the illusion of control? Do I seek His kingdom, or do I seek my rights, my political agenda, my version of God’s will?

This might be a good week to accept Jesus’ invitation to travel together and get to know Him.

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Fear: Maybe It’s Pretty Simple

Thursday, March 27th, 2014

Yesterday the guys in my workshop talked about fear.

We looked at a hierarchy of spiritual needs and I asked them to list fears that came to mind if those needs weren’t met. The idea was to help each guy identify where he was in the hierarchy.

The exercise proceeded pretty much as I expected, but driving home as I processed their responses I realized something significant.

Nobody expressed a fear of not following God’s plan.

These guys have lost just about everything. Most of them have no idea where they’ll end up or what they’ll do when they complete their program. If anyone ought to be fearful of outcomes, it’s them.

But they’re not. They’re much more concerned with process, with learning how to follow and know Jesus, than with destination and results.

The more I consider it, the more I’m convinced that God has a plan for each of these guys—and for me and you. And I’m not sure that plan has a lot to do with specific activities, paths, or destinations.

I have a sense that if you’re doing what you love, what you’re good at, what serves others, and if you’re doing it with Jesus, you’re probably making God smile.

I think God cares more about HOW we do than WHAT we do.

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Why do people at church fake being happy?

Thursday, March 20th, 2014

I’ve told you the guys in my workshop ask great questions. They don’t know there’s some stuff you’re not supposed to mention.

“So what makes you think they’re faking?”

“Nobody’s that happy all the time. It’s like there’s a rule against being sad or upset. All the songs are about joy and peace, and sometimes that’s not how I feel. But I think they’d kick me out if I wasn’t smiling—I mean, not really, but nobody’s showing their real feelings.

“I go to Celebrate Recovery on Thursdays and it’s totally different. People there are real. But on Sundays, you gotta be happy. And I don’t think they’re always that happy. I know I’m not.”

I completely agree with my friend. There are many days I don’t feel the joy of the corporate worship experience, when all those smiling faces make me feel isolated and alone.

I’m glad I know better. I’m glad I know worship is more than music and more than feelings. I’m glad I know a lot of those smiles aren’t real and church has a lot of hurting, confused, lost people.

That’s why we fake being happy—because we’re just like everyone else, and we’re afraid, and we don’t want others to know we’re afraid. So we hide behind our happy masks.

So that was my answer, and my friend said, “But doesn’t that sort of defeat the purpose? Isn’t the whole point of a community to have a place where you can be honest and let down your guard?”

“Sure. The whole idea of a life of worship is to love God, others, and yourself—openly and transparently.

“But nobody said it would be easy.”

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Is Envy Rotting Your Bones?

Wednesday, March 12th, 2014

Proverbs 14:30: “A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones.”

I confess I envy people who can eat whatever they want and not get sick. Can you relate?

I can’t eat red meat, pork, shellfish, fried foods, or dairy products. I usually do well at home. When I eat in a restaurant or go away for a few days, the battle begins.

I dislike drawing attention to my food restrictions. However, when a waiter brings me a different meal than the others receive, that’s what happens.

I feel a twinge of envy and wonder if my bones are rotting. How about you?

To make matters worse, I suspect I can’t eat wheat either.

No matter what, I want a heart at peace that gives life to my body. I don’t want envy to rot my bones.

You may not suffer from food allergies, but you may have physical limitations. They challenge you, and you may envy people without them.

Perhaps you’re single and envy your married friends. Maybe you’re married and envy your single friends.

You may live in a townhouse and envy those in a large house with a big patio. On the other hand, you may live in a large house with a big yard and envy those in a townhouse who have less to clean.

Dear God, help me have a heart at peace. Amen.

Application:  What will you do this week to avoid envy?

Has suffering crushed you? Does God even care?

Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

When I look at the devastation of this world, at the suffering of others and the pain of my own life, I ask, Where is God?  Does He even notice?  Does He even care?

My first step in this journey of seeking answers to these questions began when I realized that earth is not my true home.  I am just visiting here.  I am just passing through.

…having confessed that they were strangers and exiles on the earth… But as it is, they desire a better country, that is, a heavenly one. Therefore God is not ashamed to be called their God; for He has prepared a city for them. Hebrews 11:13, 16 NASB

God did create a perfect world, and mankind shattered that perfection with our sin.
Pain runs rampant, seemingly unchecked.  But we don’t belong here! We are built for eternity!  We are strangers, aliens, foreigners here!  Our citizenship is in heaven.

Okay… so then why are we still here?  Why don’t we just head on up to our true home?  If God loves us so much, why does He leave us down here groaning with all of creation?

I believe the answers to these questions are uniquely tailored for each one of us.  I think the answers may come as we seek to know God more and grow in our relationship with Him.

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Celeste Li, M. D. is the author of
Triumph Over Suffering: A Spiritual Guide To Conquering Adversity
She is active member of Christ Fellowship Church in Palm Beach Gardens Florida.
Celeste teaches a course in Triumph Over Suffering and serves in Christ Fellowship’s Ministry for the Suffering.

Do You Appreciate the Radical Claims of Christ?

Monday, March 3rd, 2014

My friend invited me to speak to a group of young adults last week. As we talked prior to the event he said, almost matter-of-factly, “I never stop being surprised by just how incredibly radical Jesus’ message really was.”

He paused for a moment, then corrected himself. “Not was… is.”

That’s a pretty good pre-game pep talk for a speaker.

I think I’m like my friend. I suspect I don’t really appreciate the radical nature of His claims.

Or perhaps I do, but I also know following radicals–really following them, not just pretending–isn’t always the safest choice.

Have a great week!

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What Did You Get Me?

Tuesday, February 18th, 2014

Romans 5:5: “And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us.”

When I would return home after being out, my young son would run up to me and ask, “What did you get me?”

I usually found one item for him. He would smile and thank me.

When I would visit my neighbor’s granddaughter, she would ask me, “What did you get me?”

I usually had something for her too. One day I said, “What did you get me?”

With raised brows and an open mouth, she stood in silence. We both knew the answer to that question.

Jesus returned to his heavenly home, but he didn’t leave us without hope.

God didn’t squeeze out a drop or two of love into our hearts. The Bible says, “God has poured out his love into our hearts.”

With such generosity on God’s part, how can we be disappointed?

Jesus promised to send us the Holy Spirit, and he did. As Christians we have the Holy Spirit living within us.

What does the Holy Spirit get us? According to God’s Word, the Holy Spirit is our teacher and comforter (John 14:26). He brings us power (Acts 1:8) and prays for us according to God’s will (Romans 8:26-27).

As I sometimes say, “With God, every day is Thanksgiving.”

Dear God, thank you for your outpouring of love for me. Amen.

Application: What will you do this week to show that you have hope?

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What Do Others Need from Me?

Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

Last night our small group did an interesting study.

We looked at Acts 16:11-40, the story of the roots of the Philippian church. The story recounts the conversion of three diverse characters: Lydia, a wealthy foreigner; a demon-posessed slave girl; and a Roman jailer.

Paul approached each person differently. He did what each needed to encounter Christ. I encourage you to read how he interacted with each individual.

At the end of the study, we were challenged to summarize our takeaway. I thought we came up with a pretty cool statement. We decided that when we meet someone we should always keep this question in mind:

What does this person need from me to see Jesus?

I wonder how my relationships and interactions would change if I always remembered that question.

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