What Can You Do for Your Aging Parents?

“The doctor doesn’t want me driving anymore?” my dad told me on the phone.

Have you heard that before? I didn’t say much, but I agreed with the doctor. Dad is legally blind in one eye and hard of hearing in both ears.

His doctor makes house calls monthly, and his nurses visit weekly. That way Dad doesn’t need to drive to them.

With the distance between us, I call frequently and pray for Dad as often as I think of him throughout each day. I claim Psalm 121:8: “The LORD will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore.”

Years ago when my mother was still alive, I begged my parents to move here. However, they wouldn’t hear of it. Dad says, “It’s too late now.”

I tell him it’s never too late. I worry about him climbing up and down the stairs and taking care of that big house and large front and back yard.

Of course, Dad insists he can do it all and doesn’t need help.

He refuses to move into a small one-story apartment. He says, “My home is paid for. Why should I pay rent?”

“Because it would be easier for you,” I tell him.

I’ve resigned myself to the fact Dad won’t change his mind. So I go back to Psalm 121:8.

Can you identify with me? Will you pray Psalm 121:8 or another special Scripture for your aging parent(s)?

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