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Caffeine
Surrender
Driving down the freeway your left rear tire explodes.You gently pull to the side of the road to exit and see what happened. You begin to check to see why it popped.
STOP.

The problem with most of humanity is that reason right there. In the end, it doesn't matter what popped the tire. It doesn't matter that if you were in the other lane, you could of avoided it. It doesn't matter that you will now be late. And it doesn't matter when you say, " I knew I should of called in". Why? Because none of those things actually happened.
Work on the solution. Take it off, and fix it. There is nothing in this world that is good, nor bad that you can prevent. For there is only rules one can live by, for which when done, makes you accept when the unpreventable happens.
How many of you would go back and change an event in your life? Let's say one would change their academic career. For which the only reason I can think of would be to have a better job, and obtain more money. They are not living by the rules given. Money is absolutely nothing. It buys fake rules for which leads people to think it is something. Money creates man to believe you can prevent. Money can not make one go back and prevent your flat tire. It can only buy you a new one. It can not make you sober, only get you into places that try to help get you sober. False: money controls people places and things. Fact: people places and things allow money to control them. Other examples are such; I would of not married that person, I would have said bye to my father before he died. I would of never used. I would of answered the phone. I would of been kinder. Would, should, could. Words I will never understand.
Relapse: Biblical Prevention Strategies

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This workbook is for the Christian who has experienced God's grace and forgiveness but finds himself drawn back into the lure of sin.
Here you will find valuable tools and insight into your temptation to return to any "addiction."
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Christians in Recovery Devotional Journal

365 Recovery Thoughts, Scriptures & Prayers
to Change Your Life
to Change Your Life
This devotional journal is for those who are seeking healing and wholeness in their life as well as a closer relationship with God.
Are you addicted to a substance or behavior? Are you a victim of anxiety, fear or hopelessness? Is a behavior or thought pattern controlling your life? Are you codependent or an adult child? Do you over eat?
Strengthen your faith as you draw nearer to God through the pages of this book.
Three hundred and sixty five individual recovery thoughts with accompanying scriptures and prayers to guide you.
Definition of Addiction
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Feel too far Gone to Claim His Promises?
Do as thou hast said. 2 Samuel 7:25 
God's promises were never meant to be thrown aside as waste paper; he intended that they be used. God's gold is not miser's money, but is minted to be traded with. Nothing pleases our Lord better than to see his promises put in circulation; he loves to see his children bring them up to him, and say, "Lord, do as you have said. We glorify God when we plead his promises.

Do you think that God will be any poorer for giving you the riches he has promised? Do you dream that he will be any less holy for giving holiness to you? Do you imagine he will be any less pure for washing you from your sins? He has said
"Come now, and let us reason together,
saith the Lord:
though your sins be as scarlet,
they shall be as white as snow;
though they be red like crimson,
they shall be as wool."
Faith lays hold upon the promise of pardon, and it does not delay, saying, "This is a precious promise, I wonder if it is true?" but it goes straight to the throne with it, and pleads, "Lord, here is the promise, 'Do as you have said.'"
Our Lord replies, "Be it done to you as you desire."
When a Christian grasps a promise, if he does not take it to God, he dishonours him; but when he hastens to the throne of grace, and cries, "Lord, I have nothing to recommend me but this, 'Thou hast said it;'" then his desire shall be granted.
Prayer for Those in Recovery from Substance Abuse
Dear God,
I pray for those who struggle with alcohol or other drugs. Please let them know how much you love and care for them.
Please don’t let them bury themselves in guilt and shame. You are a God who forgives. You are the God of the second chance and even of the third and fourth chance.

Help those in recovery find a job. Give them an employer who understands addiction and will make it possible for them to work and still be able to attend recovery meetings.
Give them real friends who will love and respect them and hold them to the standard of staying clean and sober.
Bless them with a sponsor who will both encourage and challenge them to do their step work.
Humility in Recovery
In recovery, we need to stay focused on the path ahead. There are many obstacles that can effortlessly obstruct our growth process. One deadly sin that we should always steer clear of is pride. Anyone in recovery is extremely susceptible to external hindrances because we were once slaves to them during our addiction. Outside hindrances can include numerous things, such as shame, resentment, fear, self-centeredness, and pride,
among other things. If we are to evade these hazardous obstacles, we should harbor and uphold a humble spirit. Once we are finally clean and sober, have gone to meetings, and have worked the program, we learn that God alone can cure us of our past sins. We must surrender our will and our lives over to the care of God. And this, my friends, requires an act of humility.
5 Ways To Give Up Improper Habits
I use the word “improper” because I hate using the word “bad”. Bad sounds evil or terrible, and some habits just aren’t that bad; they might be annoying but they are not bad. What improper habits do you have? We all have improper habits that we exhibit occasionally, especially with our spouse. For this particular article, I’m talking about the annoying little idiosyncrasies that we carry around on a daily basis that may or may not frustrate those we live with.

1. Identify Your Habits
I Just Can't Stop! How to Overcome Addiction
If you just can't stop your addiction or behavior this booklet will help.
Overindulge? Who Me?
2 Peter: 1:5-6: Make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; and to knowledge, self-control and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness.
I turned on the TV to hear the news and the weather report. In a commercial, the person said this is the season “of overspending and overindulging.”
Years ago, a friend told me she gains 10-15 pounds every Christmas season. My mind pictured her in January with her eyes bulging out of her head as she tried to squeeze into her jeans. Vaseline on her legs wouldn’t have helped her slide her body into those jeans.
An acquaintance told me that when his credit card bill from last Christmas came it was as high as the national debt.












