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by Michael Liimatta, Past President of Christians in Recovery
The primary distinctives that differentiate Christian
Recovery from other approaches to life change lie in our approach to spirituality.
Here are some of the major theological tenants of the Christian approach to recovery.
- Recovery is truly Christian only if God is part of it.
This God is not just a nebulous "Higher Power", but rather is the
Creator of the Universe Who has revealed Himself in the Bible. Additionally, this God is a
loving God, who showed His love by sending His Son, Jesus Christ, into this fallen world
to save us. John 3:16)
- The Word of God is the authoritative rule and guide
for our recovery. We believe there is, indeed, some objective TRUTH in this world
and that it is revealed in the Holy Scriptures. Hebrews 4:12)
- There is a real devil. He is a real entity,
who though the power of deception, is fighting for the minds of men. Truth is therefore
the ultimate weapon in the spiritual warfare of Christian recovery. (John 8:31-32)
- Sin is deceptive, powerful and addictive. As
Christian author, Keith Miller states, sin (or the "control disease") is the
root of all addictions and compulsive disorders. (Romans 7:15-25)
- There is a Redeemer. Jesus Christ has won the
victory over sin, death, and the devil by His death on the cross. (1 John 3:8b) Therefore, the message
of the Gospel brings forgiveness and the power to experience real change in our lives
through God's power. (Romans 1:16)
- This is a fallen world Not only are external
things warped, perverse, confused, and corrupt, believers in recovery must still contend
with their own fallen natures, as well. (Romans 7:21)
- All human beings need spiritual rebirth. Because
spiritual death is a reality, we must assume that everyone needs to experience new life
from God. (John 3:3)
- There is a significant difference between guilt and
"toxic shame". Guilt is a response of the conscience to specific sinful
actions. On the other hand, destructive (or "toxic") shame is an inner sense of
being unlovable, unredeemable, hopeless, irreparably flawed, incomplete, and worthless.
Everyone who struggles with a compulsive disorder experiences this to some degree. The
Gospel provides the answer for both of these dilemmas. Confession and forgiveness are
God's way to overcome guilt. And, growing in relationship to Him and other healthy people
enables us to accept ourselves as loved and lovable. (1 John 4:9)
- There is a definite difference between the terms "drunkard" and "alcoholic." According to the Bible,
drunkenness is a moral condition. On the other hand, alcoholism is a therapeutic condition. What
separates the addict from the non-addict is not how often they drink or how much they
drink, but what happens when they do drink - the loss of control (or powerlessness). Once
an individual becomes addicted, he can never be a social drinker. (Ephesians 5:18)
- God works in processes. "Recovery"
is not a one time, once-and- for-all thing - it is a process (Romans 12:2). Recovery is not just
"fixing" ourselves, but rather it is gaining the "tools" to succeed in
working out what God has already put within (sanctification). (Philippians 2:12,13)
- God works through His Spirit. The word Greek
word "paraclete" is used in the scriptures to refer to the Holy Spirit. This
term means "counselor" or "personal tutor." To succeed in recovery,
believers must learn to respond to God's Spirit and walk in His will for their lives. (John 16:13-15)
- God works through people There is no more
isolated and lonely person than the addict. John Bradshaw says, "The deepest wound of
toxic shame is the inability to develop meaningful, intimate, human relations." The
message of Christian Recovery is that God's grace is experienced as a process which
involves intensely honest and nurturing relationships with other people. They serve as
agents of His grace to unravel our woundedness and reshape our thinking. (Hebrews 10:23-25)
- Christian recovery is "intensive
discipleship." "Putting the cork in the bottle" (not using drugs or
alcohol) is no guarantee of any lasting change in an individual's life. What addicts need
is a systematic commitment to an ongoing process of personal growth. Christian recovery
means gaining new tools that enable us to live a new sober life and to remove all the
"stumbling blocks" to a life of Christian victory. (2 Peter 1:5-11) We might also
consider "recovery" as another word for what that Bible refers to as
"sanctification".
- Repentance is more that simply confessing our sins to
God. We all must own up to our own sin if we are to experience forgiveness. (1 John 1:9) Still an additional step
is necessary -- repentance. The Greek word for repentance is "metanouia" which
implies a complete change of mind. New thinking comes from new attitudes that have been
formed by new perspectives. Acts 3:19)
- "Rigorous honesty" is essential for true
spirituality. Jesus declares that the truth will set us free (John 8:32) So, we must make a
commitment to "walk in the light". (1 John 1:5-9)
- There is a "therapeutic value" to talk. Self-revelation
in a safe environment is a tremendously healing experience. Support groups provide an environment that
promotes this process. (James 5:16)
- "Grace flows freely through unclogged
conduits." Christian workers cannot bring people to a place they have not
come to themselves. Therefore, if we want to reach out to hurting people, we must be in
the process of dealing with our own issues first. (1 Cor. 11:31; 2 Cor.
4:1-2)
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